Comments on: Why Do So Many Indian Men Cheat?

By: Rajpriya

Rajpriya — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 08:46:51 +0000

Hi Dr_Idli

Long time no hear. Yes I admit you may be right. My intention was to explain things in a less technical way so that even average people could understand.

I have enough experience in fingerprinting of printing machines to establish the characteristic curve of each machine (they are all different for various reasons) so as to manipulate a the digital artwork to obtain the required result when priting.

If I write on that then as you say the plot of this post may be lost. However,this all about why men are all different and why they do what they do.
So forgive me if I did deviate.

By: Dr_idli

Dr_idli — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 08:12:47 +0000

Rajpriya : that’s an elaborate analogy ! Probably a statistician can have come up with a better one – maybe with the mean , a normal distribution curve , standard deviation ect …

This is definitely a very much commented post ! where somehow i just lost the plot !

By: Rajpriya

Rajpriya — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 08:05:18 +0000

The era of decent and good Indian men is long gone. You may find those isolated rare fine Indian gentlemen existing but they may be really very old and living until this day with their one and only women. Leaving India may be a solution looking for a white man. However a guaranteed 100% satisfaction may be very elusive. We humans are well known for looking for things that don’t exist.

It could be an acid test. Acid tests are done to establish the pH value that is a measure of the strength of an acid or a base. It is indicated on a scale from 0-14. On printing machines the fountain solutions prevent the non-image areas of a printing plate taking on ink. If this solution is not of neutral pH value it may become impossible to obtain a clean print on paper. Too alkaline or too acidic solutions may end up in disastrous results. It may be you print a few hundred sheets or millions of prints. Cutting down the number of variables is important to get desirable and constant results right through to the end.

The life of a man and woman is almost similar with the exception that any such standardization by bringing down variables may be impossible because imposing a quality control system for human production has not been invented so far. Therefore we need manage with what is available and make the best out of our lives and move on.

By: Priya

Priya — Thu, 07 Feb 2013 15:42:11 +0000

Hi,
After a long time. First Amanda let me say this is what a major portion of Indian men do. They maintain relationships with foreigners and marry Indian women. Usual excuse his parents forced him, religion, culture etc etc…….this is all nonsense said by major indians living overseas. Get out of there. He just needs a Indian women to do his housework and you alongside to satify his desires. Leave Amnada and live ur life with a decent man who values u as a wife and not a second women . All the best.

Men are men. Been in India for more than a year and I tell you . I hate this place for all reasons. The men here are ridiculous. Let it be the CEO, MD ,Ex Director or MGR they all behave the bloody hell the same. You want a job then satify them. You want a promotion be with them. Insane lot…I am seriously thinking of finding a foreigner. Its pointless marrying an Indian. It runs in their blood they consider pride or power or competition. Its ridiculous just ridiculous.
God knows how the women live in this country

By: Rajpriya

Rajpriya — Mon, 04 Feb 2013 16:53:57 +0000

“In India cheating is some sort of a birth right. It’s no shame to cheat”.

You may be right. why on earth do we idiotic Indians continue wasting valuable energy and time on Lokpal and Lokayukta that deprive us of our birth right?

By: njoyguru

njoyguru — Mon, 04 Feb 2013 14:31:09 +0000

yea cheating is the most praised and prized act in India. Specially when you do it on others to get your work done. It is considered as the best part of your intelligence. And when it’s a matter of intelligence there is no point of reflecting.In India cheating is some sort of a birth right. It’s no shame to cheat. Across India it is well practiced in different forms and levels. Irrespective of gender, education and economy cheating is a salient feature of Indian culture. As a whole sense of morality is quite different among Indians compare to western world. I guess it has to do with religion and quality of education.

By: Angela Carson

Angela Carson — Mon, 28 Jan 2013 07:53:40 +0000

Wow, Amanda, that is quite a story. I was with someone who “knew it wouldn’t work” because of his parents but he was very forthcoming with that from the start. It must be heart breaking to know that you were lied to so much and that he didn’t have the nerve to tell you how things honestly stood. You can’t change this part of Indian society and very few men will ever go against their parent’s or family’s wishes — it is what it is. The best advice I can give, if you don’t mind, is to move on and never look back. Your self worth is very important and it will start to deteriorate under a false shell of a relationship and anything this guy can give you because you have such strong feelings for him (if it was just a fling this would not be the case, but you love him). Best of luck! -angela

By: Amanda

Amanda — Mon, 28 Jan 2013 07:07:01 +0000

I’m at the right place for this topic. I think cheating goes on everywhere and culture or where your from doesn’t matter. I’ve been involved with a Indian man for almost three years. He graduated and began working, then his parents wanted him to marry. He told me there was no future but kept hanging on to me. He left for his week trip to India taking leave from his job to get married. He called me often missing me telling me he didn’t get married. Upon arriving back to the US he say’s in October I’ll be going back for marriage and still has relations with me. I became quite nosy and snooped while cleaning his room only to find his marriage certificate with the names and addresses of both her father and his. He continues to lie to me and maybe I’m in the wrong for being with him but after all I had him first and still even after marriage he is with me. What does this say for his marriage? Did he do it to only please his parents? Surely a man of his intelligence knows how easy for a woman to gossip would be. Just wanted to share my story.