The 100th International Women’s Day anniversary brings some very happy, but a whole load of rather grim news for women in India. First the good – after years of being stuck on hold the Women’s Reservation Bill, which would reserve 33% seats for women in parliament, looks like it will finally be passed today, giving the much-needed boost for those wanting to join mainstream politics We are anyway among the few nations in the world who’ve had a woman Prime Minister in the past and currently have a woman as President along with a woman speaker, a woman leader of the opposition and a woman at the helm of India’s ruling coalition. This would only be the icing on the cake!
Added to this, six of India’s top banks have women CEOs, along with two Deputy Governors at the Reserve Bank of India. The 3rd most powerful woman in the world, Indra Nooyi, is an Indian and guess what, ALL of Forbes’ top philanthropists from India this year are women, not a single man there. Whew! On the whole it seems Indian women are shattering that glass ceiling and marching along with men in every sphere of life. Yes, there are large disparities in pay scales and not as many as desired are at the top level in corporate India. But year after year there is a marked improvement in the ratio of women to men in managerial or leadership positions and that is encouraging.
Sadly, though, that’s pretty much where the good news ends. For every one of these women making headway in corporate boardrooms and parliamentary committees, there are hundreds and thousands of others retreating many steps backwards. I vividly remember a shocking incident 3 years ago when I went to Gujarat, apparently India’s fastest developing state, to visit my brother in Baroda. His landlord’s wife, who had been 3 months pregnant, came back from the hospital one fine day and told us she had aborted the pregnancy the third time over because the unborn baby was a girl. Horror-struck as we were, her story it seems isn’t all that shocking or rare for most of India despite the fact that prenatal selection has long been banned by the government.
So as economies the world over fight fiscal deficits, India it seems will be soon fighting a chronic girl deficit. Reports from the studies carried out by the Britain based medical journal Lancet suggests 120 boys are being born for every 100 girls in parts of Northern India and 1 out of every 25 female fetuses are being aborted. That is a staggering half million girls being murdered every year! In parts of India such as the North East, Delhi, Gujarat and Haryana the sex ratio is so skewed that there are less than 900 (in some cases less than 850) girls born for every 1000 boys. What’s worse, and in fact more worrying, is that this imbalance is rapidly increasing, augmented by the proliferation of ultrasound machines, and not decreasing as would be expected with affluence or education! In fact, in the posh parts of South Delhi, where rents are comparable to any European city, the girl-to-boy ratio is a shameful 845 to 1000.
I don’t know what to say, really, except that perhaps it is time we stop patting ourselves on the backs for the great headways we are making on the world stage. It would probably be more fitting to hang our heads in shame and not say a word more until we get this sorted. A double digit growth rate would mean absolutely nothing when we are faced with the prospect of large scale social anarchy where squads of single and frustrated young men would unleash their might on the few remaining women available in our great country.
Not yet perhaps time to say ‘Happy Women’s day’ after all!



Nikhil has a Masters in Broadcast Journalism from the University of Westminster, London. He began his career with Times Now - a leading English language news channel in India and went on to become Associate Producer for News Features at Bloomberg UTV, Mumbai. He is currently living in London straddling 2-3 part-time jobs. He spends his free time and money traveling, reading fiction, deciding to exercise and wondering what to do next in life!

Peta Jinnath Andersen is a freelance and fiction writer. Born in Sydney, Australia, to a Fiji-Indian father and Scottish mother, she’s a bit confused about her background, but loves it all the same. Currently living in the US, she has just had her first child, and is busy studying hard in an effort to learn more about her Indian heritage – including taking Hindi lessons – so she can teach her son about just what it is that makes an NRI special.


on March 8, 2010
at 2:07 pm
Indeed shocking!
on March 9, 2010
at 11:48 am
but are the educated willing to go back into the countryside and work for change? NO
For the world there is one country called India, but within India, there are 2 worlds…one made up of the uppercaste educated middle and upperclass and the other, the lowercaste uneducated poor…the two worlds never meet!
on March 9, 2010
at 12:27 pm
The attitude towards the girl child is instated at birth in many Indian families – many Indians grow up with the subliminal message well entrenched that boys are better than girls!We need to reverse the whole attitude towards girls before we can get a meaningful change in adult behavior – this is a lesson to the current generation – do not pass on this type of ghisa-pita old fashioned boys are better than girls attitude to the next generation!!!!
on March 9, 2010
at 12:32 pm
Class doesn’t matter here Nalini. Like I said…the poshest parts of South Delhi where the so called educated people live has one of the lowest girl to boy ratios. That is proof enough that the prejudice against the girl child hasn’t gone with education or affluence. The problem lies in the dowry system which cripples families and dissuades them from having a girl child…
on March 19, 2010
at 3:49 am
The film Matrubhoomi (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0379375/) actually hypothesized what the future could be like with one woman for seven (or more) husbands. It’s a horrible prospect.
on July 30, 2010
at 11:07 am
I can’t believe that female-infanticide is still happening…and when finding out the sex of your unborn child is a criminal offense in India, how do people find out?
I doubt dowry is the only reason, as so many women are already in well-paying jobs by the time they get married.
on August 21, 2010
at 12:58 am
Well the actual numbers of girls in states like Haryana are even lower, probably something like 600-700 girls for 1000 boys. Recently a family of four brothers tried to get married to elder brother’s wife , as there is acute shortage of marriage age girls in this state. This leads to the conclusion that marriage-able grown girls are more like 250 available for 1500 boys…its a shame. GOD BLESS THE GIRLS AND GOD BLESS INDIA.