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	<title>Comments on: Coconuts On Trial</title>
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		<title>By: Hannah</title>
		<link>http://www.the-nri.com/index.php/2009/09/coconuts-on-trial/comment-page-1/#comment-4885</link>
		<dc:creator>Hannah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2011 12:03:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What I feel is the right attitude towards an issue maybe wrong in the eyes of the next person....that&#039;s because we&#039;re humans!! its in us to think differently from one another.....ten different people may have twelve different opinions on one single topic!! If everyone could just accept this fact, then the world would be a much better place :)at this point let me also add that, I would find it quite offensive if I were called a coconut.So yes,in a way this article wasn&#039;t very amusing to me...but at the end of the day, Meera&#039;s a talented writer, this I have to admit.I do feel she will go a long way in striking a chord with the majority of readers if she could channel her thoughts towards more concrete issues....once again, this is solely MY OPINION....it really doesn&#039;t bother me whether the next reader agrees to it or not.Message to Meera:Keep writing girl!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What I feel is the right attitude towards an issue maybe wrong in the eyes of the next person&#8230;.that&#8217;s because we&#8217;re humans!! its in us to think differently from one another&#8230;..ten different people may have twelve different opinions on one single topic!! If everyone could just accept this fact, then the world would be a much better place <img src='http://www.the-nri.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> at this point let me also add that, I would find it quite offensive if I were called a coconut.So yes,in a way this article wasn&#8217;t very amusing to me&#8230;but at the end of the day, Meera&#8217;s a talented writer, this I have to admit.I do feel she will go a long way in striking a chord with the majority of readers if she could channel her thoughts towards more concrete issues&#8230;.once again, this is solely MY OPINION&#8230;.it really doesn&#8217;t bother me whether the next reader agrees to it or not.Message to Meera:Keep writing girl!</p>
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		<title>By: Madhu</title>
		<link>http://www.the-nri.com/index.php/2009/09/coconuts-on-trial/comment-page-1/#comment-4616</link>
		<dc:creator>Madhu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2011 11:12:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I stumbled upon this site just now ....   Having grown up in India,(North &amp; South), Africa and living presently in the US &amp; India, I can tell you that being Indian encompasses everything!!  within my state of kerala, I can&#039;t figure out the mentalities of a lot of cultures or groups, leave alone a Bihari&#039;s or a Kashmiri&#039;s.... labelling each other is a superficial way of categorizing people which we humans need to keep our mental order.  However, if the chance arrives for intimacy with others, one finds out that yes ... he/she is representative of the group yet atypical and individual. In such a context, there are very few terms that are really offensive .... coconut is not one of them! I&#039;m sorry for the guy above ranting away, who cannot see tongue-in-cheek and seems to take life extremely seriously for whatever reason .... As for the author, please keep up the writing ...... as it is Indians are better at poking fun of others than themselves .... we need to  stop putting our hackles up so!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I stumbled upon this site just now &#8230;.   Having grown up in India,(North &amp; South), Africa and living presently in the US &amp; India, I can tell you that being Indian encompasses everything!!  within my state of kerala, I can&#8217;t figure out the mentalities of a lot of cultures or groups, leave alone a Bihari&#8217;s or a Kashmiri&#8217;s&#8230;. labelling each other is a superficial way of categorizing people which we humans need to keep our mental order.  However, if the chance arrives for intimacy with others, one finds out that yes &#8230; he/she is representative of the group yet atypical and individual. In such a context, there are very few terms that are really offensive &#8230;. coconut is not one of them! I&#8217;m sorry for the guy above ranting away, who cannot see tongue-in-cheek and seems to take life extremely seriously for whatever reason &#8230;. As for the author, please keep up the writing &#8230;&#8230; as it is Indians are better at poking fun of others than themselves &#8230;. we need to  stop putting our hackles up so!</p>
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		<title>By: The NRI</title>
		<link>http://www.the-nri.com/index.php/2009/09/coconuts-on-trial/comment-page-1/#comment-3325</link>
		<dc:creator>The NRI</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 11:42:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Really - because he has the same right to put his viewpoint forward as anyone else. There are just some obvious rules regarding conduct and language which thankfully most intelligent people are able to work out for themselves.

On that note, thank you for all your contributions thus far, albeit under different aliases and with different email addresses:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Really &#8211; because he has the same right to put his viewpoint forward as anyone else. There are just some obvious rules regarding conduct and language which thankfully most intelligent people are able to work out for themselves.</p>
<p>On that note, thank you for all your contributions thus far, albeit under different aliases and with different email addresses:)</p>
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		<title>By: really?</title>
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		<dc:creator>really?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 10:41:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why don&#039;t you just ban this guy, if you feel that strongly about his behaviour?  Surely, by keeping him here you are just putting off everyone else?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why don&#8217;t you just ban this guy, if you feel that strongly about his behaviour?  Surely, by keeping him here you are just putting off everyone else?</p>
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		<title>By: jason prasad</title>
		<link>http://www.the-nri.com/index.php/2009/09/coconuts-on-trial/comment-page-1/#comment-3318</link>
		<dc:creator>jason prasad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 00:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>granted, it was strong but strength lies in truth, Alfred, you write like you&#039;ve read a lot, and certainly you don&#039;t make efforts to hide this fact, I often picture you climbing on your thrown - your short legs don&#039;t touch the floor so you stand on the seat and begin issuing your lectures and instructions on behaviour, settlements and peace, please most of us are familiar with Sun&#039;s Art of War, what was that he said &quot;wars are won in the temples of morality before they are fought on the battlefield,&quot; so enough of your patronising tone, we may not have gone to the schools you attended, but we know when someone&#039;s lecturing pompousness makes the face contort and twist in the same way it would after it sees and smells a fresh puddle of hot steaming vomit. Your instructor lead deliveries irritate me, so a little word; the deck of cards I play with are no different to yours, but still you seem to think you have the high ground? Please, I&#039;ll throw faeces in your faces with all of my four aces, 

What lies in libraries but lies, anyone ever tell you that bookworm. You&#039;re pick-apart-able, not just to the bone or marrow, but anatomically at cellumolecular detail. I was being rude, as I am now, because it warrants it, perhaps when your words elevate to a point that is sufficient suitable enough for me to engage in, I will be civil, as I am usually, for now though, you can take your high-brow attitude and consider why some of the world&#039;s most evil tyrannical dictators got pissed-off with the middle class business men, doctors, teachers,  and politicians and decided to kill them off first. I&#039;ll tell you why, the rich from Africa and Asia went to England, got educated at oxbridge and then returned to their nations and began abusing what they were taught and corrupting their country further, Aang sung being an exception. I feel it is important you &#039;middle class and I&#039;m proud of it&#039; folk take heed, for it was precisely your kind of people, who rejected Hitler at Vienna art school which may have lead to his unforivable.  Adjust your writing tone to quality, Alfred else working class writers will cut you to pieces just as am doing write here!!!

middle classes; the greatest set of foolish people who seem to believe they are cutting edge and inspirational to others; when you are clearly nothing of the sort.

Rarely do i have to lower my reasoning to the middle classes level, nobody lies sinking beyond the depths of hell itself.. But it looks like I am having to on this board, how else can you defeat fools except by arguing as one. Fools - the lot of you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>granted, it was strong but strength lies in truth, Alfred, you write like you&#8217;ve read a lot, and certainly you don&#8217;t make efforts to hide this fact, I often picture you climbing on your thrown &#8211; your short legs don&#8217;t touch the floor so you stand on the seat and begin issuing your lectures and instructions on behaviour, settlements and peace, please most of us are familiar with Sun&#8217;s Art of War, what was that he said &#8220;wars are won in the temples of morality before they are fought on the battlefield,&#8221; so enough of your patronising tone, we may not have gone to the schools you attended, but we know when someone&#8217;s lecturing pompousness makes the face contort and twist in the same way it would after it sees and smells a fresh puddle of hot steaming vomit. Your instructor lead deliveries irritate me, so a little word; the deck of cards I play with are no different to yours, but still you seem to think you have the high ground? Please, I&#8217;ll throw faeces in your faces with all of my four aces, </p>
<p>What lies in libraries but lies, anyone ever tell you that bookworm. You&#8217;re pick-apart-able, not just to the bone or marrow, but anatomically at cellumolecular detail. I was being rude, as I am now, because it warrants it, perhaps when your words elevate to a point that is sufficient suitable enough for me to engage in, I will be civil, as I am usually, for now though, you can take your high-brow attitude and consider why some of the world&#8217;s most evil tyrannical dictators got pissed-off with the middle class business men, doctors, teachers,  and politicians and decided to kill them off first. I&#8217;ll tell you why, the rich from Africa and Asia went to England, got educated at oxbridge and then returned to their nations and began abusing what they were taught and corrupting their country further, Aang sung being an exception. I feel it is important you &#8216;middle class and I&#8217;m proud of it&#8217; folk take heed, for it was precisely your kind of people, who rejected Hitler at Vienna art school which may have lead to his unforivable.  Adjust your writing tone to quality, Alfred else working class writers will cut you to pieces just as am doing write here!!!</p>
<p>middle classes; the greatest set of foolish people who seem to believe they are cutting edge and inspirational to others; when you are clearly nothing of the sort.</p>
<p>Rarely do i have to lower my reasoning to the middle classes level, nobody lies sinking beyond the depths of hell itself.. But it looks like I am having to on this board, how else can you defeat fools except by arguing as one. Fools &#8211; the lot of you!</p>
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		<title>By: The NRI</title>
		<link>http://www.the-nri.com/index.php/2009/09/coconuts-on-trial/comment-page-1/#comment-3316</link>
		<dc:creator>The NRI</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 2010 23:54:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jason, please do not use that language again. You have complained about having previous comments deleted. I am a reluctant censor but will disallow any further contributions to this debate that you are unable to articulate without the use of expletives. You are clearly an intelligent man, and I was extremely disappointed in your outburst.

Alfred has summed it up quite well. You have a very different take on this matter and people respect that. You certainly cannot make your position any clearer.  It is causing you to be upset and the time may have come for you to unsubscribe from comments to save you any further distress.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jason, please do not use that language again. You have complained about having previous comments deleted. I am a reluctant censor but will disallow any further contributions to this debate that you are unable to articulate without the use of expletives. You are clearly an intelligent man, and I was extremely disappointed in your outburst.</p>
<p>Alfred has summed it up quite well. You have a very different take on this matter and people respect that. You certainly cannot make your position any clearer.  It is causing you to be upset and the time may have come for you to unsubscribe from comments to save you any further distress.</p>
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		<title>By: Alfred Jones</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alfred Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 2010 23:08:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jason,

It is quite clear both NRIs like myself and others, and non-NRIs like Kerri, who have posted comments don&#039;t view terms like &quot;coconut&quot;, &quot;oreo&quot; etc in quite the same way you do. It is perfectly okay for something to be blindingly obvious and self evident to one person but not to another isn&#039;t it? That&#039;s part of the deal in any conversation between online participants no?

So, while you do feel very strongly about this, and we respect that, I think I speak for the rest of us when I say there is no way you&#039;re going to prove your point or change our minds - especially with the tone and language you&#039;ve picked for your recent postings on this topic. &quot;M[***]ER F[****]ER!!&quot; Really, was that necessary? (Unless your goal was not to persuade but to vent your outrage and anger at our attitudes toward this subject. In which case, yes, you&#039;re mad, we get it.)

Similarly, I don&#039;t think any of us has any hope of changing your mind either.

One of the reasons I enjoy www.the-nri.com is because the people that pariticipate are unfailingly civil in their dealings with each other. How about we stick to that tradition and end this discussion at this time? Please.

~alfred</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jason,</p>
<p>It is quite clear both NRIs like myself and others, and non-NRIs like Kerri, who have posted comments don&#8217;t view terms like &#8220;coconut&#8221;, &#8220;oreo&#8221; etc in quite the same way you do. It is perfectly okay for something to be blindingly obvious and self evident to one person but not to another isn&#8217;t it? That&#8217;s part of the deal in any conversation between online participants no?</p>
<p>So, while you do feel very strongly about this, and we respect that, I think I speak for the rest of us when I say there is no way you&#8217;re going to prove your point or change our minds &#8211; especially with the tone and language you&#8217;ve picked for your recent postings on this topic. &#8220;M[***]ER F[****]ER!!&#8221; Really, was that necessary? (Unless your goal was not to persuade but to vent your outrage and anger at our attitudes toward this subject. In which case, yes, you&#8217;re mad, we get it.)</p>
<p>Similarly, I don&#8217;t think any of us has any hope of changing your mind either.</p>
<p>One of the reasons I enjoy <a href="http://www.the-nri.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.the-nri.com</a> is because the people that pariticipate are unfailingly civil in their dealings with each other. How about we stick to that tradition and end this discussion at this time? Please.</p>
<p>~alfred</p>
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		<title>By: Keri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Keri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 2010 22:18:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Before I comment on anything else, what does this mean?

&quot;I doubt who spells kerri, you don’t have to be an FBI writing analyst to figure out the sentence structures, use of conjunctions, use of participles, commas, bracket usage, etc.&quot;

This is the second time you&#039;ve said something like that but I don&#039;t get what it means.  Please explain.  Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Before I comment on anything else, what does this mean?</p>
<p>&#8220;I doubt who spells kerri, you don’t have to be an FBI writing analyst to figure out the sentence structures, use of conjunctions, use of participles, commas, bracket usage, etc.&#8221;</p>
<p>This is the second time you&#8217;ve said something like that but I don&#8217;t get what it means.  Please explain.  Thank you.</p>
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